So I just got an email from the guy I wrote about in "The Worst of Times".
This is what he had to say about why he didn't follow up with me:
I need to write to tell you what happened. As I am now allowed to say.
My Dom, gave me one week to find someone off the internet to sleep with, and I then had to break all contact for 1 week.
My Dom then dumped me, showing me that I am what I think I am .. I am now Domless.
I am sorry if I hurt you in anyway.
I replied with this email (stealing Marina's suggestions of course):
You did really hurt me. I should have sent you an invoice for sexual services rendered since you basically just treated me like a whore in the end. And added extra money for the fucking flour I used to bake your cookies.
Although I do sleep with guys for cash sometimes I also am on the look out for someone to date and do not do casual sex any more because after all, that's what I get paid for.
I told you from the beginning that I was looking to date and not just casual sex and you agreed and I got kinda into liking you so slept with you anyhow out of excitment for thinking I'd found a fun kinky match - only to find you used me for your own sexual games without my permission.
I could care less that your Dom dumped you.
Go to hell.